Is it any wonder some guys don't get any dates? Then again, maybe Danny's out there doing just fine with his approach while I'm the one sitting here writing a blog about it!
It's amazing how extremist views (in either direction) can turn people into mindless zombies. It's like watching someone you knew fairly well have their brain turn to Jello over the years!
Keep in mind I hadn't talked to this person in many years, and she was never such an extremist back then. This was the first thing she contacted me with in about a decade, totally unsolicited, and she just jumped right in with harsh photos and slander of what she referred to as "True Ukraine" straight out of the gate!!
Following from Quora:
Ghosting is Here to Stay
Ghosting - a product of electronic dating
According to https://www.regain.us/advice/dating/am-i-undateable-5-possible-reasons-why/ here are five possible reasons why you are und=ateable
THIS IS the SHIT! Read this!!!!
You wait four days for a message back and you're holding you phone in your hand when they reply... you respond INSTANTLY and then it's another four days before they reply again.
Abe introduces himself and gives a general overview of what we hope The Undateable Podcast will achieve. We explore what it means to be undateable and the various definitions of such, and what people can potentially do about it.
Whether you believe you can, or you believe you can't... You're right!
Keep int general
Nutbag could not have thrown more red flags. I didn't evene know what they were at the time
Are you a ten? What is average? Does anyone ever think they are a two? Is it rude to rate people with numbers? Should we have two numbers, one for your superficial first-glance and another for your intrinsic value as a person?
Does everyone swipe out of their league? How do you know? What is the point if you're only going to swipe on people that don't reciprocate? Aren't we wasting our time? What about the opportunity cost of swiping at home with no results, and no longer meeting people in real life?
Women date with a "what can I get" mindset while men date with a "how much do I have to give up" mentality
When are we ever going to get to a shared understanding of what it means to be equal partners in a relationship without taking it so literally? Nobody believes in literal equality yet we continue to beat our potential mates over the head with these ideals, only sabotaging our own happiness!
Matrix versus "reality" and red pill versus blue pill. Are these just waring factions like Democrats versus Republicans? Is the Black pill the Libertarian? Was Jerry Springer weird or has it become the norm? Was Idiocracy a warning to us all? Are we in a population decline or are our current gender wars all in our imagination?
American views towards entitlement, food, diet, exercise. Is it hard to lose weight, or are we just addicted to instant gratification? Why is someone earning $40k per year paying $30 to have Door Dash bring them a sandwich?
Passport bro's concept - and are they really "Bro's" or are they older men? What percent of people are doing this? Why don't women want to do this? Do foreign women adopt the American ways after a while anyway?
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Given the massive footprint of material we hope to cover, Abe admits that it's hard to decide where to start. He decides to get the juices flowing by telling a tale of a recent random encounter he found himself in while walking the streets of Chicago.
